First let me say thank u for stopping by. I am jay, Let me say that first i am a proud father even though my kids dont stay with me i am very much a part of thier lives! I have physically made 3 but i help to raise 4. I have a job but i still travel to play basketball around the country. The most important thing i ican say about myself is that i TRUELY LOVE THE LORD! And i am not saying that for your approval but thats who i am! I am not saying I'm some SAINT or GOODIE TO SHOES, I am far from that. BUT treating you with respect is most important to me.If i dog you out how can i be mad if some guy dogs one of my daughters out! i also attend school (devry) finishing my B.A in B.I.S(business Informations Systems Management. The reason i chose CASUAL is simply because i dont know you nor you me,so it has to start off as that and grow into whatever it shall be. Starting of course with being a "FRIEND FIRST" and letting the rest take care of itself.Now i realise that the woman 4 me may or maynot reside where i am. So i am not bound by 4walls or any state borders.Most things of VALUE dont come easy,But are well worth the work. I'm readyfor the task at hand. The question is are you?

What i am looking for is simple. A woman who is just that "A WOMAN". Not the new 2008 version. A true woman is timeless. She has a "BALANCE" Shes a nuturer, A lover,A Best friend,Has a lil freak in her,lol, But most important Not only knows who GOD is but has a Relationship with him. Not just on Sunday but everyday of the week. Not doing flips up and down the church isle for a show or going to show off the new EASTER DRESS! but who is serious about his business. If she is trying to please him i dont have to worry about how she will treat me. If i lose my job or get hit by a bus She wont run to the next guy but stay and have her mans back! Anyone can be there in the GOOD TIMES but what about when the storm comes? I know who will be there. A REAL WOMAN!What i also really like is a woman who can and does wear a mean shoe! Stilletos wedges whatever. You know thats SEXY!What i dont want is a woman blowing smoke all in my face, Bad breath smoke in ya clothes i think u get what i am saying! Keep it real with me cause i will keep it real with u!